There’s nothing more exciting than a date night. It doesn’t matter if it’s with a brand new flame you’ve been obsessing over or your spouse of almost a decade…there’s something about dressing up, going out, and then taking it back to the bedroom that is truly spectacular.
If you want to enhance your next date night, consider doing more than rushing out the door when the evening arrives. Instead, why not allow yourself time to indulge in a luxurious primping session that will get you even more in the mood for what’s to come.
Here is a decadent pre-date ritual that will make you feel incredible and add even more spice into your night. (Oh, and don’t feel like you need someone else to indulge…this can all be done before a special night when you want to fly solo instead).
Step 1. Shower
Every woman knows that women have all kinds of showers. There are the ones before work when you are quickly in and out. There are those ones where you cry it out and step out feeling like a whole new person. And then there are those ones where you pull out all the stops…this is the kind of shower we’re talking about.
Use this time in the shower to truly pamper every inch of your body with a spa-like experience. We’re talking face masks, exfoliants, hair treatments, the whole nine yards. If it’s a date-night, shaving your skin and leaving it feeling buttery soft is also a must. Don’t be afraid to stock up on supplies for this one – treat yourself to the shower that you deserve.
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FRESH – Sugar Lemon Bath & Shower Gel
Lush – Comfort Zone Shower Bomb
GLAMGLOW – SUPERMUD® Charcoal Instant Treatment Mask
Step 2. Moisturize & More
The best time to moisturize is when you step out of the shower. Damp, warm skin will lock in moisture and leave you feeling soft and smooth from head to toe. Start with a luxurious body oil and finish by smoothing a thick body butter on your legs and other rough spots. Then, buff off with a towel or a soft dry sponge.
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Josie Maran – Whipped Argan Oil Body Butter
Herbivore – Jasmine Body Oil
Step 3. Get Into The Mood
Your mental state is just as important as your physical one when it comes to primping for date night. Start getting in the mood by burning some incense or lighting a candle in a decadent scent that will activate your senses. Then, turn on music that makes you feel like a sexy goddess that can conquer the world.
We Recommend
Nest Fragrances – Grapefruit Scented Candle
Harman Kardon – Onyx Studio 4 Blutooth Speaker
Step 4. Slip Into Something More Comfortable
Don’t quickly change into your date-night outfit. This evening ritual is all about taking your time and enjoying every moment. A special silk robe with nothing underneath will start getting you comfortable with your body. Or, put on the special lingerie that you plan on wearing under your clothes. Want to spice up the night even more? Send a picture to your date so that they know what’s on the menu for dessert.
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Kim + Ono – Peony & Butterfly Kimono Robe
Agent Provocateur – Ulrika Lingerie Set
Step 5. Hair & Makeup
Just like with your shower, allot enough time to really pull out all the stops when it comes to your hair or makeup. Give yourself a special at-home blow out and straighten your strands to perfection. Then create an elusive – and time consuming – perfect cat-eye, line your lips, pluck your brows, and all of the other things that you save for special occasions.
We Recommend
Olaplex – No. 3 Hair Perfector
T3 – Cura Luxe Hair Dryer
Anastasia Beverly Hills – Precision Tweezers
Step 6. Get Into Your Outfit
Once your hair and makeup is looking picture perfect, it’s time to slip into your outfit. Instead of putting it on, looking in the mirror, and only noticing your flaws, try this exercise instead – imagine that it’s your best friend who is standing in front of you instead of your reflection. Would you tell her that she needs to hit the gym because her arms are looking flabby? NO WAY! You would tell her how fabulous, fierce, and flawless she looks in her little black dress – which is exactly what you should be saying to yourself!
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Fashion Nova – Breaking It Down Mini Dress
Step 7. The Finishing Touches
Before you step out the door to meet your date, it’s time for a few finishing touches. Take a look at your makeup and fix any areas that need a touch up. Then, spray on your favorite hair perfume and slip into your stilettos – it’s time to show the world who is the sexiest woman around.
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ESU Hair Parfum – Carnal #4
